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« on: August 31, 2010, 06:09:41 AM »

As of a day or two ago, I have lost my Girlfriend >.<
It's a harsh feeling, especially when there was no real reason for it. I've never really opened myself upto anyone in my entire life like I did with her, and now I'm kind of regretting it. But! I have no regrets Tongue
Wasn't the first time though, first time was quickly patched up the following week, but in that time I was shattered =/
So I'm not so much feeling as bad as I would if this was the first time, but I am feeling the Love Sickness >.<
Any thoughts on how to clear my mind and be free of these evil shackles of emotion?! D:
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« Reply #1 on: August 31, 2010, 03:01:23 PM »

When I need to clear my head, I like to go to someplace I've never been before. Just being in a new surrounding is more then enough to take my mind of most things.

Also, the best way to get through it is to allow yourself to feel these things. It sucks, I know, but its an experience gained. I believe through practically any experience, you can always gain at least one positive thing out of it. Finding what that thing is is the hard part, but it will be there if you look.
Its just another one of those life things that Calvin's dad would say builds character, like poison ivy, swimming in a cold lake or getting up early. :/

All I can say for sure is don't try to bottle up your emotions, or dismiss them. Face them for what they are because your emotions are a crucial part of who you are.

When it comes down to it, just remember that we have to have these low times in our lives, because it shows us how to truly appreciate the good times, and the emotionally high times. Without the bad times, life is just one, long, boring roller coaster.

Chin up and look to the future, and you'll make it through. :3 *pats shoulder*

-TJ
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« Reply #2 on: September 06, 2010, 08:37:49 AM »

*houg* here mabe this vid. will get you to smile

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BNZzJELbFRI

I hope it worked


ps. so trou TJ.  I hope you don't mind me caling you that I sean outhers call you that
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« Reply #3 on: September 19, 2010, 03:50:40 PM »

I've seen that video before Tongue
Not exactly the kind of thing I would need to be listening to, might get ideas Grin
Jking.

Thanks BV, wise words. But I find it hard not to bottle up my emotions. Truth be told I don't really know how to express them or get them out other than having a break down release them. Which is what happened friday >.<
I'm not mentioning that to get attention or for people to feel sorry for me, because that's the last thing I need. I'm kind of glad I did have a break down, because I'm feeling a bit better. Maybe it was hitting the refresh button. Maybe now I can go about a none f***** up individual? Well, I'm not exactly normal. I have a few flaws, but nothing none to serious I would think. I'm a very stable and sane Wolf, I'd know if there was something wrong with me Tongue

Anyways. Thanks again. ^^

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« Reply #4 on: September 19, 2010, 10:39:49 PM »

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I'm a very stable and sane Wolf, I'd know if there was something wrong with me

We'd like to think so, yes.  Smiley  Sometimes we can't see the forest for the trees.

But in all honesty, these things do happen to people, even to the best people.  (Far too often to good people, it seems.)  All we can do is learn what wasn't working, and work towards that for next time.  At the very least, you gain a bit of knowledge of what you personally don't want in a relationship.

Best of luck with the healing, mate.  Takes time, but thankfully you have much.

Cheers;
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« Reply #5 on: September 21, 2010, 02:27:09 PM »

Yus yus. Thanks. But if I may... Time can not heal all wounds, and sometimes it just makes them worse. That's not the case with this however, I'm sure I'll be fine down the road. But bleh. Just makes people realize how much I meant to them when I suddenly dissapear. (NOT SUICIDE! I CAN NOT STRESS THAT ENOUGH!)
I was thinking of getting a change of scenery, going to with with mah father for a bit. I never really was close to my old man, as I only ever seen him every other weekend. More of an incentive to move aswell.
All in all, I say: Whatever. ^.^
**** the ***holes, **** 'em good.

(Edited by Lady Serpent for language.  Let's keep it PG-13, pour favour.)
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« Reply #6 on: September 21, 2010, 06:44:07 PM »

Moroson sorry but remember PG-13 for language.kay? Dead
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« Reply #7 on: September 21, 2010, 09:38:00 PM »

If life seems bad, remember this http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WlBiLNN1NhQ Wink

having Insanity is the way to keep sane. ;P
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« Reply #8 on: October 30, 2010, 06:04:36 PM »

Oh, um, yes. I apologize for mah words.  Lookaround
I'll refrain from an further vulgarity :3
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